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It Only Hurts When I Breathe
For many men, going to the doctor feels less like responsible self-care and more like a reluctant concession that something has gone wrong with the machinery. They tend to arrive with a mixture of stoicism, suspicion, and quiet hope that whatever is happening can be solved with either “a pill,” “a shot,” or “just ignoring it for a while longer.” Most men are deeply practical patients. They want answers, not explanations. “What is it?” “How do we fix it?” “When can I leave?” L
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5 days ago2 min read


I Don’t Need Another Pair Of Pants!
Men and women do not go clothes shopping the same way. This is not a stereotype. This is a law of nature, like gravity or the fact that the line you choose at the supermarket will always move more slowly than the other one. For many women, clothes shopping is an experience, a journey, an emotional expedition that requires hydration, stamina, and possibly a snack break. For many men, clothes shopping is a mission: get in, get the thing, get out, and survive. A woman does not s
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Jan 113 min read


Quiet!!! Football Is On
Men like football for reasons that go far beyond the scoreboard. On the surface, it looks simple: big plays, loud crowds, and the occasional miracle catch. But underneath the helmets and highlight reels, football taps into something older and deeper: competition, loyalty, ritual, and identity. It’s not just a game; it’s a weekly event that asks for attention, commitment, and emotion. One reason football resonates so strongly with men is that it provides clear rules and clear
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Jan 52 min read


New Year's Eve: Two Experiences
. New Year’s Eve is one of the clearest examples of how men and women can attend the same event and experience two entirely different realities. Everyone agrees on the countdown, but what people think they’re counting down to varies wildly. For some, it’s a symbolic turning point. For others, it’s the moment they’re finally allowed to go home. For many women, New Year’s Eve starts weeks in advance, often without warning. There is reflection. There is meaning. There may be a
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Dec 28, 20252 min read


The Great Holiday Divide
Men and women approach the holidays with family as if they are preparing for two entirely different events. For many men, the holidays are something that happen to them . They arrive, they eat, they sit, and eventually they leave. For many women, the holidays are something they produce . Like Broadway. With props, costumes, rehearsals, and a budget that somehow exceeds expectations every single year. Men tend to view the holidays as a fixed point on the calendar. Thanksgiving
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Dec 19, 20252 min read


He said, she said, and everyone took notes!
When men and women criticize each other in public about their relationship, it’s rarely planned. No one wakes up and thinks, “Today feels like a good day to emotionally body-check my partner in front of witnesses.” And yet, it happens—at dinner parties, family gatherings, grocery store aisles, and especially in front of people who were just hoping to enjoy the guacamole. Men tend to criticize publicly in a drive-by fashion. A quick comment, tossed off like a joke: “Well, if s
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Dec 14, 20252 min read


DO MEN REALLY ACCEPT WOMEN AS BOSSES?
Let’s be honest, humanity has accomplished many impressive things-landing on the moon, inventing pizza delivery, and figuring out how to fold fitted sheets (well… some people have). Yet one mystery remains unsolved: Do men truly accept women as their bosses? You’d think by now we’d have a clear answer, but no. Even in 2025, the workplace still feels like an ongoing social experiment where some men act shocked that a woman is in charge, as if leadership positions automatically
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Dec 8, 20252 min read


What Did You Say?
? Insults may seem like small slights on the surface, but a man may interpret them as a challenge to their very masculinity, while a woman might see them as either the result of jealousy or simple mean girl behavior not to be taken too seriously. Society has taught them to read threats and disrespect through entirely different lenses. Many men have been socialized to see other men as competitors, whether for dominance, status, or respect. An insult from another man can feel
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Dec 1, 20252 min read


How Men and Women Argue Differently
Arguments are inevitable in any close relationship, but the way men and women navigate conflict can look very different. These differences aren’t about who’s “right” or “wrong.” Instead, they stem from communication patterns that have been shaped by biology, socialization, and lived experience. Understanding these distinctions can turn arguments from emotional minefields into opportunities for deeper connection and clarity. Men often approach disagreements with a goal-oriente
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Nov 23, 20252 min read


I Need Help; But Don't Tell Anybody
When it comes to therapy, men and women often start from very different emotional playbooks. Women tend to view counseling as an extension of self-care, much like scheduling a doctor’s visit or their monthly hair appointment. For many women, therapy fits naturally into the idea of taking responsibility for their well-being. Men, on the other hand, often grow up with the message that seeking help equals weakness. They’ve been silently trained to keep their emotions in check, f
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Nov 17, 20252 min read


Age is Just a Number-or is It?
There’s one small question that can make a room go silent: “So, how old are you?” While both men and women are asked it, their reactions often couldn’t be more different. Age, though simply a number, carries a web of expectations, pride, insecurity, and social meaning. And the way people answer it often reveals far more than just years lived. For many men, age can feel like a scoreboard of achievement. Their reaction to being asked often depends on where they stand in life. A
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Nov 9, 20252 min read


When “I’m Sorry” Means Different Things
“I’m always the one apologizing”-there’s always one partner in a relationship who seems to do all of the apologizing. But even if that’s the case, the method and meaning of an apology depend on the gender of the person making the apology. Apologizing is one of those deceptively simple acts that reveal a lot about how we see ourselves and others. On the surface, “I’m sorry” should mean the same thing to everyone. But in reality, the way men and women approach apologies often
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Nov 3, 20252 min read


Thanks for the Compliment ???
Compliments may seem simple, a kind word, a smile, an acknowledgment, but they’re loaded with meaning. How a person receives a compliment often reveals as much as how it’s given. While both men and women enjoy recognition, studies show their responses differ dramatically. What feels flattering to one person can feel suspicious, awkward, or even threatening to another. Compliments, it turns out, are less about vanity and more about vulnerability, perception, power, and societa
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Oct 27, 20252 min read


Love in the Ring
Let’s face it, if communication between men and women were a sport, arguments would be Let’s face it, if communication between men and women were a sport, arguments would be the Super Bowl. Everyone shows up confident, well-trained, and absolutely convinced they’re right and they will win. The trouble is that men and women are playing entirely different games. She’s playing chess; he’s tossing a football. When a woman senses an argument brewing, she reaches for context, b
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Oct 20, 202510 min read


Love Doesn’t Always Conquer All
Breakups rarely happen overnight. More often, they unfold quietly, through small disappointments, unmet needs, and unspoken frustrations...
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Oct 12, 20253 min read


Is Leisure Time the Great Equalizer?
Women have made great strides in achieving equality in the workplace, but does that equality extend to who’s using the TV remote more?...
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Oct 5, 20252 min read


BORN BAD?
If you watch or listen to the News, it’s difficult not to notice that most, if not all, of the perpetrators of mass shootings are men....
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Sep 29, 20252 min read


He'll Take The Check
Historically, men paying for women was tied to economic realities. For much of history, men had greater access to wealth and employment,...
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Sep 22, 20252 min read


Equality vs. Equity: Same Shoes, Different Feet
Equality and equity might sound alike but in practice are quite different. Equality is giving everyone the same thing, same shoes, same...
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Sep 15, 20252 min read


More Than Just A Game
Every autumn, football season takes over televisions, calendars, and sometimes entire weekends. For many men, it’s the highlight of the...
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Sep 8, 20252 min read
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