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What Did You Say?
? Insults may seem like small slights on the surface, but a man may interpret them as a challenge to their very masculinity, while a woman might see them as either the result of jealousy or simple mean girl behavior not to be taken too seriously. Society has taught them to read threats and disrespect through entirely different lenses. Many men have been socialized to see other men as competitors, whether for dominance, status, or respect. An insult from another man can feel
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4 days ago2 min read


How Men and Women Argue Differently
Arguments are inevitable in any close relationship, but the way men and women navigate conflict can look very different. These differences aren’t about who’s “right” or “wrong.” Instead, they stem from communication patterns that have been shaped by biology, socialization, and lived experience. Understanding these distinctions can turn arguments from emotional minefields into opportunities for deeper connection and clarity. Men often approach disagreements with a goal-oriente
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Nov 232 min read


I Need Help; But Don't Tell Anybody
When it comes to therapy, men and women often start from very different emotional playbooks. Women tend to view counseling as an extension of self-care, much like scheduling a doctor’s visit or their monthly hair appointment. For many women, therapy fits naturally into the idea of taking responsibility for their well-being. Men, on the other hand, often grow up with the message that seeking help equals weakness. They’ve been silently trained to keep their emotions in check, f
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Nov 172 min read


Age is Just a Number-or is It?
There’s one small question that can make a room go silent: “So, how old are you?” While both men and women are asked it, their reactions often couldn’t be more different. Age, though simply a number, carries a web of expectations, pride, insecurity, and social meaning. And the way people answer it often reveals far more than just years lived. For many men, age can feel like a scoreboard of achievement. Their reaction to being asked often depends on where they stand in life. A
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Nov 92 min read


When “I’m Sorry” Means Different Things
“I’m always the one apologizing”-there’s always one partner in a relationship who seems to do all of the apologizing. But even if that’s the case, the method and meaning of an apology depend on the gender of the person making the apology. Apologizing is one of those deceptively simple acts that reveal a lot about how we see ourselves and others. On the surface, “I’m sorry” should mean the same thing to everyone. But in reality, the way men and women approach apologies often
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Nov 32 min read


Thanks for the Compliment ???
Compliments may seem simple, a kind word, a smile, an acknowledgment, but they’re loaded with meaning. How a person receives a compliment often reveals as much as how it’s given. While both men and women enjoy recognition, studies show their responses differ dramatically. What feels flattering to one person can feel suspicious, awkward, or even threatening to another. Compliments, it turns out, are less about vanity and more about vulnerability, perception, power, and societa
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Oct 272 min read


Love in the Ring
Let’s face it, if communication between men and women were a sport, arguments would be Let’s face it, if communication between men and women were a sport, arguments would be the Super Bowl. Everyone shows up confident, well-trained, and absolutely convinced they’re right and they will win. The trouble is that men and women are playing entirely different games. She’s playing chess; he’s tossing a football. When a woman senses an argument brewing, she reaches for context, b
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Oct 2010 min read


Love Doesn’t Always Conquer All
Breakups rarely happen overnight. More often, they unfold quietly, through small disappointments, unmet needs, and unspoken frustrations...
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Oct 123 min read


Is Leisure Time the Great Equalizer?
Women have made great strides in achieving equality in the workplace, but does that equality extend to who’s using the TV remote more?...
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Oct 52 min read


BORN BAD?
If you watch or listen to the News, it’s difficult not to notice that most, if not all, of the perpetrators of mass shootings are men....
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Sep 292 min read


He'll Take The Check
Historically, men paying for women was tied to economic realities. For much of history, men had greater access to wealth and employment,...
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Sep 222 min read


Equality vs. Equity: Same Shoes, Different Feet
Equality and equity might sound alike but in practice are quite different. Equality is giving everyone the same thing, same shoes, same...
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Sep 152 min read


More Than Just A Game
Every autumn, football season takes over televisions, calendars, and sometimes entire weekends. For many men, it’s the highlight of the...
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Sep 82 min read


The Lonely Man Club
We often talk about gender bias and people always assume that it only applies to women. However, men are also equally affected by what...
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Aug 252 min read


Double Standards: How Gender Bias Shapes Men’s Attitudes Toward Women
Gender bias isn’t just a women’s issue as it deeply affects how men perceive, interact with, and respond to women in every aspect of...
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Aug 183 min read


The Apron, the Briefcase and the Pursuit of happiness
Are stay-at-home moms happier than working moms or vice versa? And is there actually such a thing. Unless stay at home moms spend their...
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Aug 102 min read


Still Sexy At Sixty +
Dating after Sixty is a world apart from dating as a Twenty Year old. Although you might still be looking for your Prince Charming you...
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Aug 52 min read


Aged Wine Is The Most Treasured
The baby boomer generation has always believed the world was there just for them and is shocked to think that they are no longer the...
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Jul 272 min read


What Happens When Your Superman Gets Sick or Hurt?
Many of us grew up with the idea that a man is supposed to be the strong one. Like, “carry all the luggage in one trip” strong. “Open the...
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Jul 212 min read


Cheating by the Numbers: a Snapshot
Infidelity is hardly rare, as roughly one in six married Americans admits to sex outside the relationship, and most surveys show the gap...
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Jul 142 min read
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